I Think my Water Broke....or is Breaking

  This morning (7:30 a.m) as I was getting ready to get in the shower after using the restroom, I felt myself leak...... like my bladder wasn't done so I thought "oh yay" now I am losing complete control over my bladder. Except it has not stopped leaking, and it is now 9:48 a.m, at 8:30 a.m DH felt frisky and so yeah, but he didn't pull out as we were hoping it would get things going...... normally you'll start leaking the sperm out after a few seconds to a minute, but I got out of bed and there it was on the bed. Didn't even have a chance to stay inside lol, and there was so much liquid on the bed. I am still leaking, it isn't gushing but just a gradual leak. I am having to wear a pad right now, it just won't stop. I called the midwife and she said that if I don't go into full active labor this morning, she wants to meet me at 3 p.m to check and make sure that my water did in fact break.
    Now it is just a waiting game, should I just chill and relax.... or bounce a little on my stability ball? This last Tuesday I was still at 3 centimeters, LO was VERY LOW and has probably dropped even more since, I have been feeling tightening, cramps, pressure, and last night I think I had a couple real contractions and some this morning but still not sure.... I honestly don't know when I will know 100% that these contractions are active labor  
     Excited, nervous, anxious, this waiting game is a pain